Wow, is this a description? Amazing.

First, go click on the random post feature down there. Do it! It's so cool!

Did you do it? Anyway. I'm a twenty year-old demibi grey-aro mutt-raced upper-middle-class american (if that mess of labels is what matters to you), and this is my blog. I use she/her pronouns. I make comments in the tags sometimes. My Likes list contains mostly how-tos, reference guides and music, so that's a nice thing to check up on now and then if you like that stuff. My Trntbl is hella and often helps me when I feel low: from cool music to humor clips, it's just the audio version of this blog minus the sj and most of the fandoms. If you ask me things, I will answer them if you're not a dick about it. If you are a dick though, I commend you on being able to blog and type successfully. You do you.

Anyway, it's about to get moderately wild up in here, and I hope you're 100% for the ride.

 

methlabrador:

whats the meaning of life? son, its those little tiny pumpkins. the ones that are mad small.  you know the ones i mean. 

(Source: mattressblowoutsale)

iguanamouth:

grunklestan:

dang look at this cool shirt from Mexico I really wanted to get it but it was in children’s sizes only

thats no excuse. wear the shirt anyway over your bulging adult body. bust through the seams as you flex your rippling biceps at the police, streaking past the other patrons in the park and clothed in nothing else but the tattered scrap of what used to be a childs shirt. bad as youguana be

iguanamouth:

grunklestan:

dang look at this cool shirt from Mexico I really wanted to get it but it was in children’s sizes only

thats no excuse. wear the shirt anyway over your bulging adult body. bust through the seams as you flex your rippling biceps at the police, streaking past the other patrons in the park and clothed in nothing else but the tattered scrap of what used to be a childs shirt. bad as youguana be

marxvx:

if i as a retail worker have to work with a dozen cameras pointed at me to deter me from stealing $10, cops should have to work with a camera pointed at them to deter them from arbitrarily maiming and killing people

sindohan:

people who say ”romantic love is what makes you human!!!!” are actually right. aromantic people are, in fact, gods in disguise, traveling in the human world to observe and study the humans and their weakpoints, in order to eventually eliminate them all and take over their world

fat women: *gets shit on by peers, media, the fashion industry, products and marketing*

skinny women: *praised by literally everyone*

skinny women: *doesn't say shit while fat women are being put down*

Nicki: fuck skinny bitches

skinny women: what the FUCK what htE FUCK??? YOU ARE Nt gonna get ANYhwer by shMING ANY body type...we have to LOVE evyer,,,one!!!!1111

beranyth:

bigendernepeta:

beranyth:

PSA

Someone being ace- or aro-spectrum does not in anyway victimize those around them

Even if there are unrequited crushes involved

Get that gross attitude out of your mind and writing and burn it with fire

can someone please explain this post?

A big part of it is like demigenderfoxmulder's reply explained, but though the whole “friendzone” thing is a big part of it, it really goes beyond that in a lot of ways.

This reply sums it up in a lot of ways and I very very highly recommend reading it.

It’s also friends saying that anything attractive or even simply positive about you is wasted on you because “you’re never going to use it properly.”  Parents acting like your disinterest in getting married and settling down being a personal attack or an act of rebellion. It’s anyone and everyone accusing asexual people with allosexual partners as abusing them for “depriving” them of sex.

Even the friendzone thing comes from a different angle and hits us extra hard.  The most we could ever want with a person is seen as an insult, an attack on a person’s worth.  Even people who will rail against men and the very idea of “friendzone” will still display and support this kind of behavior.

I made this post a while back as knee-jerk venting mostly as the unrequited love thing (someone had reblogged an aro ace headcanon of mine with this melodramatic shrieking HOW COULD YOU DO THIS TO ME???? thing cause they shipped their character with him, and then defended themselves by saying it’s “only human” to feel victimized like that, and that it must be the saddest thing in the world to develop feelings for an aro person, etc)

But as it picked up speed and got more and more replies, I couldn’t be more sickened by what I’ve heard other aro and/or ace people having to go through on a regular basis.

mommy-queerest:

ediddy21:

caesarsaladin:

viewoverdennistoun:

queen-kirk:

fivetail:

robinpant:

The Kickstarter Needs You

Sorry to reblog from the source, but I thought the chain of comments was rather unnecessary. All that needs to be said is that this documentary examines gender inequality and how patriarchy contributes negatively to our society.

This is a feminist issue.

And anyone on Tumblr who’s too close-minded to recognize it as such due to a nonsensical blanketed hatred of men’s issues need to re-evaluate their motives.

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THESE ARE REAL AND HORRIBLE MALE ISSUES CAUSED BY THE PATRIARCHY. IF YOURE FEMINIST, THESE SHOULD ANGER YOU. IF YOU’RE NOT, HERES ANOTHER REASON TO SUPPORT THE MOVEMENT. 

have I already reblogged this? don’t give a fuck.

The patriarchy hurts everyone.

I WANNA MENTION THIS BECAUSE EVERY TIME SOMEONE MENTIONS THIS THING ABOUT SUICIDE I FEEL I SHOULD BUT IN

MORE WOMEN ATTEMPT SUICIDE

MORE MEN SUCCEED

Women are more likely to use non-lethal methods such as pills while men tend to use firearms.

Something to keep in mind.

I need feminism because the father of my children thinks his depression is invalid because he is male.